Title:
can he stop loving me in a day or is he being for
By:
bety
Hi im heart broken for the past 10days i have been crying waiting to hear my bf say he wants us back for 4 years we were so happy yes we had few small arguments nothang thats didnt get curected, but this time hes faily wantes him to settle down wife kids and his only 24 years old im 29 years old because if this he said he ant be with me his mom wont allow him bu he cried and cried and we still talked for a whole week , and since last time he said i love you and cant stand to see you with no other he said im his one and only true love , he has not called i lert him a messeg and its been 3 days no call , is he coming back to me or was that all an act, i cant take the pain anymore i love him more then life , please help me understand what sgoing on with him , hes been the perfect man for4 years what happend the love we shared how can it die in few days . and why is he getting mad when i say iM going to see this other guy if we broke up then i can / ? HELP ME PLEASE THANK YOU
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--- Tuesday, June 1, 2004 - its over
Answer by: betty
thank you so very much for replying i realized he doesnt love me 4 days he didnt call and would not take my calles so i finnaly left him a messege , and said now it's over you never loved me you just waisted your time and moved on to someonelse. i feel sorry for her who ever she is , he dont know how to love, hes never going to get over the fact that i realized, he does this to who ever his with. his loos not mine ill meet the right guy one day, but till that day i have my friends and my job, ill be fine, when his wife who ever playes him , his gonna come runing back , thats when i will have my say so, his thing was i was mad and left a angry messege well if his friend called me and said he was in the hospital i would run to be by his side over the weekend i did somthing dumm with out anyfood in system and crying for weeks i took sleeping pills well more then i should have , if it wsant for Nancy my friend i wouldnt be writing you guys, she left him a voice mai8l saying what had happend , he never called i didnt know till this morning so i left him a messege he didnt call me to sy why im being so hard he called Nacy and blamed me for the brake up , and when nancy pushed him he said he iused to love me , but eversince he heard the vioce messeges he doent loe me , ya sure like i was born yestarday, he never did from the biggining, love never dyes. so his loos , thank you so very much fo rletting me post my sad but true story
--- Monday, May 31, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe
Sounds like a copout. He's 24 and his mother is dictating his life, telling HIM that HE'S ready to settle down with a wife and have a family? And according to her you can't be in the picture because you're only five years older than he is? I mean, ... what? Look, he's an adult, and he's old enough not to have mommy tell him who he can love and who he can't love. If he LOVED YOU he would be with you regardless. It sounds like he is feeding you some lame excuse other than giving you the truth, whatever it is. I don't buy it, sorry. I think he's feeding you bullshit for whatever reason, but it's obvious that he wants to break up. His calling you and feeding you even more bullshit is probably out of guilt. He's not worth it, Bety. If he loved you, he, at 24, wouldn't just give up on you because mommy told him so. You can do better than this one.
--- Monday, May 31, 2004 -
Answer by: a girl
If the love is strong enough, he will come back. Just because his mom disapproves won't keep him away if he really loves you. Why exactly does she disapprove of you? Just because of your age? That is kind of ridiculous. I doubt that was all an act him saying what he said, why would he have done that if he didn't mean it? Maybe he is just taking a few days to think things over, and hopefully he will see the light and realize it is his life, not his mother's, and he will do what his heart wants him to. If he doesn't, damn I know that sucks, but I doubt you would have been very happy with a guy who can't cut the apron strings. Think of "Everybody Loves Raymond." Well good luck, I hope he sees the light and everything works out. Sorry if this didn't answer your question, it is hard to say what is going on with him because I don't know him and I don't know all the details of the situation, but my guess is that he does love you but is torn because he wants his family to be happy too.
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