Me and my boyfriend have been in a serious long distance relationship for 3 years but he refuses to even think about marriage or even moving in together, why is he acting like this? If he doesn't want to get married then why does he still want to be with me, what's the point in being together?
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Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe
Well first off what are the circumstances of the LDR? Does he have a particular job, such as the military, that are keeping you apart? Regardless, if he's not willing to make a commitment to either live closer to you or be with you, then he doesn't love you enough and probably has you on the "side" in his life. I'm sorry, but if you were a priority to him it wouldn't be this way. You really deserve better than this. You've put three years into this relationship -- a long distance relationship mind you, and what do you have to say for it? You deserve a lot more than just getting tablescaps, don't you want the main course? Metaphorically speaking, do you catch my drift? Ask yourself what YOU want in a relationship, and take action from there.
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