i dont know if i love my boyfriend...i feel like i care about him alot but i think i liked him more when he and i were just friends i asked him if he liked me when we were friends at my friends house who actully liked him and she got pissed at me long story but well not go there but i donno what to do i care about him yes he treats me really good like im a princess but i dont know what i want i dont know if i can be with him because i feel kinda like he hangs on every word i say and i know he likes me alot and stuff but i dont know what im feelin im so confused is something wrong with me? should i stick it out and see what happens i mean i dont want to hurt him
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--- Friday, June 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe
You don't want to hurt him? Look, you're only hurting yourself in the long run if you're not honest with yourself. If you feel that you'll be happier being friends with this guy, then let him go, so he can find the loving relationship he deserves.
--- Friday, June 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Kat,
Listen, just tell this guy that you like him as a friend...
When you KNOW you care about someone and also KNOW that it's as a friend... don't try to make something be there that isn't.
Eventually you're going to hurt him more by staying with him, when you don't have the same feelings he does.
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