hi i truely loved this guy named David. I know i am kind of young but i think i fell in love with him. We been going out for a while now and i even thought i loved him before we were going out, but now that i broke up with him because i thought i didn't love him i can see that i do love him and care about him more than anything in the world. I mean we fight alot, but we always find a way to give the other person a hug and say were sorry. I know that David loves me because when i got made at thim he called me up and told me that i was the only girl he ever loved this much. Now after a day of us breaking up and no time for me to get over it, he's already going out iwth another girl. What do i do? I love this guy so much. And if when im not together with him i feel lost, and like there's no point of living. Please help me. And now he wants to be just friends. Of coarse i told him yes but im positive he knows that im mad about it and that i love him, but he just won't get in his head that i can't get over him. He's the only guy i ever loved this much before and wheni say i love him i just don't mean the thing were you say it to every guy you ever go out with. I mean i truely love him so much. And i really do think that he's the one that i'll always love and care for. So what do i do because he's going out with another girl? And if we ever do go back out should i just brake up with him because he made me mad? Steph
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--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Steph,
Please re read the last line in your article... okay see it?
"And if we ever do go back out should i just brake up with him because he made me mad? Steph"
Steph, do you think that if you really loved this guy and were as mature as you've claimed to be, that would be a thought in your mind?
He is with someone else... okay. It seems to me you want him back because although it was you who dumped him, it is him who is moved on with someone else and thats whats eating you up.
I'm not buying the whole "I'll never love anyone else my whole life" bit here... again Steph, last line of your article says it all.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Philgood
So, David is already with someone else? Well, if he is with someone that quick, I can't help but wonder if he might have been seeing her before the breakup. Because that is real soon. And if he really cared for you, he wouldn't be able to get with someone else that quick. On the other hand, he might just me trying to make you jelious. You are going to have to talk with him and tell him exactly how you feel. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him, there's a good chance that you don't "truly" love him.
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