Title: What should I do....I think I love him.

By: Laura

Okay, so there's this guy...Actually he's not just any guy. He's one of my best friends! I've known him for like half of my life...but we've become really close in the past five years or so. Anyways, he's always had girlfriends and so we've never had a chance to get together really. Well actually there was ONCE. A while ago when we first became friends I hooked him up with one of my friends. However, I became super jealous and confessed that I had a crush on him. He told me that it was too late.
NOW about 4 years later, I still have feelings for him. I've dated other guys, but no one compares.
About two years ago his g/f whom he was absolutely in love with broke up with him. He's still not totally over it. Meaning, he would get back with her if she wanted to. THIS is the main reason I do not want to say anything.
ALSO there have been weak moments between us in which we have kissed. Once was last summer, the other was this past New Years (but heello it's new years--everyone wants a kiss).
Ultimately I feel torn between whether he could ever like me the way I do him. We talk to each other almost every day and it tears me apart. Sometimes I feel that if I maybe tried to show him how I feel he may try to get over his ex more. Basically my question is: Do you think it's possible to make someone fall in love with you if they're still sort of in love with someone else? Should I just give up? Or if I don't, what should I do???

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Sunday, June 27, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe

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Sunday, June 27, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma