Hey, I want your advice because you are the best in here....Thanks. I came into the adult section because the teen section is useless. Im a sixteen-year-old male who's a 3-sport-athlete and has a 4.2 G.P.A, if that helps in your assessment. Thanks again, I really appreciate it.
There's this cute, quiet girl at my church who I've always had a little crush on. We both sing in the church choir so I see her every Sunday. Just recently, I've noticed she's been glancing my way, and one Sunday we made eye contact that sent a chill down my spine. Now I'm almost positive that she likes me, because she attempts to talk to me, and my friend who doesn't even know I like this girl, has pointed out to me that she sees her staring at me and trying to talk to me all the time. The problem is now that summer is here, choir is over and I don't get the chance to see her every Sunday like I did before. Even worse, I am a "shy guy" so me taking the initiative by calling her is very un-likely. What should I do to help me chances with this girl, and how can I talk to her with confidence.
Thank you very much, OTTO
Responses to this article:
--- Wednesday, July 7, 2004 -
Answer by: blackNblue24(Otto)
Ok...that wasn't me....and i was asking for Dr. Phil Wannabe "aka" phil
--- Tuesday, July 6, 2004 -
Answer by: blackNblue24
Actually I WAS asking for Dr. Philgood's response....
--- Saturday, July 3, 2004 - Hahaha, what an idiot
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe aka "Phil"
If you just started posting here, then what made you think this post was meant for you? Huh, asshole!? Otto was asking for my input, not yours. There's only one "Dr. Phil" on this board, and that person is me. I think you're the one who needs to get a life, poser.
--- Wednesday, June 30, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Philgood
I'm not posing as you. The name isn't even the same. Get over yourself and stick to giving advise. No one thinks that I am you and I just started here and didn't even know you existed. If anyone's posing, it's you. I don't think the actual Dr. Phil will be to happy. So in the words of the REAL DR. PHIL, "Get Real!"
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe
OK, I don't know who this "Dr. Philgood" is, but they are not me! How clever you are to come up with such a "great" alias, dude. For real, don't pretend to be me alright? Be your own person and you'll be happier. :-)
That set aside, Otto, you sound like a yound guy who has a lot to be proud of. You should have some more confidence in yourself man, as a man who not only sounds like he has a good head on his shoulders, but one who has brains AND morality. My advice is to approach her and be a gentleman -- ask her for her phone number. You can do it. Approach her, say hi, talk about the choir -- and say, "Hey, I'd was wondering if I could get your phone number, since we seem to have some things in common."
By the way, thanks for the compliment. Anytime you need advice, just leave me a post. I'm always here.
Best of luck. You can do this -- remember how muchyou have going for yourself. You should be confident!
--Phil (the REAL one).
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Philgood
Okay, your shy. That always makes thing tougher. But if you really like this girl, you are going to have to stand up to it. You are a church-going guy so I'll tell you this. Shyness is a spirit that was brought on sometime in your past by some embarrassing experiences. You are going to have to pray that God relieve you of the shyness. But you are going to have to help him along. One thing that girls really like is a confident guy. It is a common misconception that they like shy guys, but they really don't. Shyness is a weakness and girls want a guy that will protect them. You are going to have to suck it in and walk up to this girl and let her know exactly how you feel with a firm voice. Be sure to look into her eyes and make sure you look and smell good. And see if her pupils dilate. (The black part gets really big.) That is a sign that she is into you. Good Luck!
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