For those of you who have read my previous postings, you know the basics of my problem. However, if you haven't read them, I'll paraphrase what has gone on.
I've liked this guy since our Freshmen year of high school. I always wanted to be his girlfriend and I always hoped that he would share my feelings. However, because of a lot of issues, it never happened. We are now entering our senior year and he says he's leaving, but I'm starting to get confused.
I went to his b-day party last night after being invited by his father (his father and I have always been pretty close and he knows my feelings for his son). I was the only non-family member there and so I felt a little out of place, but in a way I felt a part of the family and closer to the guy which I had been hoping for since I started liking him. The strange thing is the fact that he hardly ever talks to me when we are in person yet he tells me that if I would have communicated more with him and shown another side of me, things might have turned out differently between us and he wouldn't just think of us as "friends".
However, the most confusing part of the situation is that he has informed me that he is leaving for another state to go to school, but not all of the information seems to add up. You see he has just acquired a new job and therefore is now holding two jobs. He has told me that he is going on vacation to the place he is supposedly moving to and is coming back for his stuff, but I figure bye that time the summer will be over and he won't be able to work very much at his new job. Plus he talks about applying for a scholarship that is only available in the state where he lives now.
What do you think is going on here? Have any of you ever had a guy or girl do this to you just to see how you'd react to his or her leaving or something like that to see if you really cared? Do you think I have a chance with this guy and if so what should I do with this complicated guy? Thanks for all of your help in advance.
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--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Blue,
I'm sorry girl...but it sounds to me that this guy isn't interested in becoming anything more than friends.
It really doesn't mean anything that he has told you he is going here or there... all it says to me is he hasn't decided yet what his plans are...
While it's all good to remain friends with this guy if you wish... I would keep on moving.
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