I like my brothers best friend. He has shown he likes me by having to touch me. ONe time we went to my lake house(my brother invited him). We were watching a movie and i let him touch me in all my private parts and then i kissed him and I dont even know if my brother knows. I don't know how to find out if it means anything or not...but I did send him an e-mail about it asking if the night at the lake ment anything to him. I'm so confused because hes 18 and im 14 and i let him touch me so i guess i led him on to much not he can't stop touching me...i don't mid it though...is that bad??? He makes me feel sexier when im around him...is that good or bad..if anyone at all is in my perdicament would you please help me?
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--- Thursday, July 1, 2004 - Just my Oppinion
Answer by: Othello
I could say a lot about how young you are etc. but I'm guessing that most people would try and chastise you so I'll digress. Now, I know that recieving affection and tenderness from another individual is great, but when that individual is simply doing it for personal and physical pleasure soley, then that is when it is bad. You aren't in the wrong, he is. No, it is not bad that you like it when he touches you. It is only natural to enjoy it when someone makes your feel pretty, but you have to know that he is doing it soley for the sexual side, not the emotional side. So please, be careful and I trust you'll make the right decision. Chunks of love.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
You are 14 years old... *ugh*
Listen, you are a kid... I know you don't think you are, but 14... you are.
This guy is 18 years old and is to old for you... it isn't the 4 year age gap here Ali, if you were 18 and he was 22 it wouldn't be an issue... however in this case it does make a difference.
Becoming intimate is a big deal Ali... and at 14 years old, it is my opinion not something you are ready to be doing.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
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ok if he respects you then nothing is wrong with it but from I hear he just wantas sex!I think u shouldn't let him do that cause u can get hiurt!My man he is 4 years older then me but he doesn't touch me pussy not even ass to j/k around!we don't ave sex!well I know if I touched his ass he would probubly touch mine but that ain't the point!he respects me and seems this guy just wants sex!so if it is like my man no it isn't bad if he is perverted then yes that is bad!BYE!
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