Well when I was very young I started out having a crush on this one guy, William who is sort of related. DONT WORRY!! Were not blood. (His brother married my cousin.)So, two years had passed now, and in that two years I become soooo in love with him. In the beginning he would stare and smile at me SOOO much it was kind of freaky and then after that period of time I found out he fell in love with this other girl just a month after he would stare at me. I was soo confused. I would literally think of him every minute of the hour. We didnt even know eachother that well. We only talked about 2 times but i was attracted to his looks and everyone would talk about how such a good guy he is so that was what kept in love with him.So he started to like me and he told my cousin that he really did like me and that his MOM did too (for marriage reasons lol)and so that really just led me on. I mean, he told my cousin that he liked me and asked for my number, so I was soo happy. Couple of months went by and I get an email from one of my reaaallyy good friends that her and William are getting engaged!!! My friend didnt know I was in love with him. I was soo devestated, I thought he liked me?? That friend of mine stopped talking to me and then a month later she emailed me back. It turned out he was the biggest *ass* and supposedly she broke up with him. This is what really upset me: William told her not to talk to me becuase I was "supposedly" a jealous girl and that I'd break it off with him and my friend if I found out about them two. He said really meaan things about me like I'm so materialistic and that I'm so desperate for him. He even told my friend's mom that "Youre daughters friend, Maryel, is soo in love with me", trying to make it seem like im this desperate and pathetic girl. When they were seeing eachother (before i found out he said those mean things about me) Me, him and my sister went out for coffee becuase we ran into him. He was acting sooooo sweet and kept asking my sister, "When can Maryel get engaged/maried"..and things like "OMG Maryel you should be a model" "And that my mom really likes you". I thought he liked me AGAIN..I cant really get over him even though I'm sooo mad at him. He tells my cousins that I always get invloved in his relationships which is not TRUE!! I only knew that one friend of mine that went out with him. WHAT SHOULD I DO...WHY DID HE SAY THOSE THINGS..HE DOESNT HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR ME, RIGHT?...OR DOES HE...????????????????????HELP!
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--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Maryel,
This guy is an asshole period end of story.
I'm sorry girl... I know you thought he was a nice guy and that you are attracted to him visually... but trust me here sweetheart, this guy isn't worthy of you.
He said shitty things about you all to improve his own ego... he thinks he's all that and because you had liked him he got on a ego trip and started to believe his own hype.
So he see's you again you know... and you "look" good to him... and while he may be attractive on the outside Maryel, he is ugly on the inside. Even if you dated him, you would find out that he isn't as wonderful as you've imagined him to be.
He isn't able to look any deeper into someone than what is on the outside Maryel... and that makes him shallow... find someone who deserves your admiration and time sweetheart... you can do better than this creep.
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