I have been married for close to 11 years and have always found my wife's sister-in-law attractive. It hasn't been until the last few years that I have had ongoing feelings and daily fantasy's about being with my siter-in-law.
A couple of weeks ago I had to go pick something up from her house and we had a chance to converse alone which doesn't happen often. Just a conversation but throughout the conversation and even before I left I would have sworn she was flirting with me. She has 3 kids so I don't want you to think we were entirely alone.
I fantasize about being with her daily almost to the point where it's ongoing throughout the day. I just think she is a beautiful woman and want to be with her sexually.
Should I approach her privately one day? Thanks
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, July 6, 2004 -
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I think you should ask your wife to have a threesome--you, your wife, and your wife's sister. Man you could watch two siblings go at it while you hit dat ass from da back.
--- Thursday, July 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
LMAO!!!!!!!!
Yeah Tim, I would for real LOOOVVEEE to see you "let your wife in on it" tell her alllll about how you want to hit it with her sister...
Oh whats that sound? Why I think its the door hitting Tim in the ass as his wife slams it!!!!!
--- Wednesday, June 30, 2004 -
Answer by: Baby*Gurl
Whoa, ok first of all, have u forgotten that u have a wife? obviously so and uve went from her to her sister, and ur thinking of her sexually? yea sure, maybe its okay to think of ur sis in law, and have feelings for her, cuz u honestly cant help how u feel, but u should tell ur wife of 11 YEARS!!! she has a sure right to know, i mean how would u feel if she was thinkin of one of ur friends the way ur thinkin of her sis? not very good if she means nething to u and has a big part in ur life....
Dont approach her unless u let ur wife in on it...
--- Wednesday, June 30, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Tim,
This is your WIFE'S sister... you are MARRIED.
I really don't give a damn if you are out of your mind with thoughts of this woman Tim, you are MARRIED and making it worse you're wanting to hit up your wife's sister.
I doubt she was flirting with you Tim, she probably just thought hey there's my sisters creepy husband, wonder why he looks at me like that, and I wonder if I should tell my sister...
Dr. Phil has said all there is to say here... *walks away in disgust*
--- Wednesday, June 30, 2004 - Jerry Springer eppie in the works, or not?
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe
Yet, another example of the selfishness which plagues humankind.
Should you approach her, your sister in law? WTF, what do you expect anyone with an inkling of morality and ethics to say? For you to bend her over? Seriously, you are a married man, SHE is a married woman. There are little kids involved here. If you act upon your selfish urges (that you CAN control if you love your wife and family) you WILL hurt ALL of them and ultimately destroy your family, and your sister-in-law's.
It's time for you to ask yourself what you value in life. For real, man -- this isn't a soap opera, this is real life with people's lives involved. Be a man and stay true to your wife and family. You have CONTROL in your own life, you can control your own thoughts and feelings. Be a man here and love your own woman and family. Otherwise it's sad to think about how many people will get hurt -- including the hearts of little kids that will be broken.
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