This guy that I know, has a girlfriend. They have been together for like a long time (probably like four years). They are still together but yet he is going out with me. I am confused. He tells me that I just have to give him time and then he will break up with her. But usually he stays at my house during the day, and her house during the night. She has two kids, but only the one is his. He swears that someday he is going to leave her, but I don't know what to believe. Should I trust him or should I ditch him?
~* Me *~
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--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Just dump this asshole okay?
You know even IF he did leave her... do you really want to be the first girlfriend with maybe one of his kids then wonder who he is chillin with when he isn't with you?
Have more respect for yourself.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
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This is a classic case of "Booty Call Betty" Any guy that is cheating on someone will ALWAYS tell the new girl that hie will eventually leave the other girl. Just to keep her hanging on to him. I think you should drop him before you get hurt. Besides, if he's cheating on her, he will most likly do the same to you.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Okay so this guy is taking advantage of you and you're letting him. How come you didn't wait until he was free before you got together with him? Anyway, that's done now it's where you go from here that matters.
I don't know how you can live in a relationship knowing he's with his other girlfriend during the night... and the hurt it would cause to everyone involved...
Do you really want to be with a guy who can treat people this way? If he can do this to her, who's to say he won't do it to you when this threesome becomes two? He's dragging his feet because the situation as it is suits him fine - he doesn't consider the hurt to 'his other girlfriend', his child and to you. You are only fuelling his antics by putting up with it.
You need trust in a relationship and he is blatantly abusing both yours and this other girls and it ain't on. In answer to your question NO I don't think you should trust him - he gives you no reason to. As for whether you end it with him that's up to you - just ask yourself - do you really want to be with a guy who can treat people like this way, when there are children involved...?
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