This is very pathetic but I am 19 and I have never even kissed a girl. I am at the age now where I a lot of the people that I grew up with are getting married and here I am with no one. I consider myself a decent looking guy and all, but I am so freaking shy. I am not even good at making friends, let alone girl friends. What is it that makes a girl like a guy. I am desperate here. Someone please give me some advise! Thanks!
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Answer by: GreenDayShe
One word: confidence
--- Wednesday, June 30, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
First off Wes you are NOT pathetic. To me, someone like you is so much more attractive because you haven't 'been around the block' or gone out with anyone just because everyone else is. If you're thinking *yeah right* - all I can say is when you do find someone you really want to be with you'll be glad that you can experience new things with someone who actually means something to you.
Often I think it's just a case of not having met any person you actually want to go out with. So don't beat yourself up about this, have confidence in yourself BELIEVE that a girl is going to enjoy going out with - that you are worthy of having someone to share your life with. This was my problem for a long time & I didn't go out with a guy until my early twenties, I met the right person, someone who made little old shy me feel comfortable.
That sorted - get into things you enjoy, I know it's cliché & is difficult when you're not a social person but try to get out there and join clubs where the people like the same things as you - that way it won't be a chore, it'll be fun. Get like-minded people around you.
I assure you if you are yourself, positive & you keep smiling you won't be single for much longer. It's often a confidence thing and by boosting your esteem you'll not only feel better but people will detect that you are a happier person and before you know it you'll be a babe magnet, I promise :)
Best of luck Wes - don't stress, she'll come along soon
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 - to mr. shy
Answer by: G
Well, when you find a girl whom you are attracted to, BE CONFIDENT, and approach her. Trust me, girls love it when you approach them inlue of them approaching you, especially if they're interested too. Try not to think too hard about approaching her. Act as if you're a not-so-shy guy and kindly introduce yourself to her. Remember: in the beginning be talkative becuase if youre not, when you do talk..the spotlight is on you and you might get tongue tied!
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 -
Answer by: verisimilitude
very simple: be friendly for that will easily win you some acquaintances that can lead to friendship and more. as for what attracts women, it varies. your main issue here is to get out of that shell. you can worry about the other stuff later.
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