my friend who i will call Danny she slept with my ex boyfriend and she said she might be pregnant i don't know how i should handle this she told me she would never do anything with him she really hurt me and i can't even look at her she said that i hurt her with not talking to her but what do i do i need major help
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Responses to this article:
--- Sunday, July 18, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
If your friendship was damaged by your former best friend getting with your ex then would not your discovering that she is indeed pregnant be the seal on things?
She told you she wouldn't 'do anything' with him - she lied & you're hurt. So it seems that there isn't much of a friendship worth salvaging as things are.
Ask yourself - do you WANT to be a close friend to her again? Taking into consideration everything that has happened? If you're not keen or are in any doubt maybe you should maintain some distance from her, at least for the time being...
The ball's in your court really. If you feel that what you had before any of this happened is worth fighting for then support her - she might not even be pregnant, but if she's not - will she continue to see your ex? These are things you need to take into consideration. Can you handle all of that?
Put yourself first & do what feels right. If that means keeping your distance - so be it, sometimes you need to be selfish...
LOVE QUESTIONS & ANSWERS: Love Q & A : Get your love & relationship questions answered - NEW!! Love Q&A Forum | Old Love Q&A Love Pros : Professional Help with love's challenges & relationships
