My ex dumped me four months ago and we managed to stay friends although I must admit its been very hard. Well about a week ago we had a talk and he admitted that he did still have feelings for me just "not enough for a relationship" because he is "too jaded on the relationship right now." So after that I kinda was like forget it and didnt really care for about a week. Well last night he just made me feel as if I wasnt important. I said something about how we hadnt talked in a week and he was like "has it really been that long?" That just made me feel really bad because if he really thought of me as his "best friend" like he says I feel that he would want to talk to me and miss me when he doesnt really see/hear from me in a while. I never contact him, thats always his deal but I just don't feel appreciated and I just want to get away. Ive told him to give me room for a while but he won't really respect that and he pretty much acts like we are dating when we do talk and hang out. Its getting to the point where I really just want to go away for a while (but can't due to work). Please someone help me, Im in a mess.
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--- Monday, July 19, 2004 - Tell him firmly
Answer by: OPP
Tell him firmly that you want no contact at all with him for awhile.
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