Title: To Emma from Andres

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Hi Emma! I just wanted to thank you for your advice. You along with the others have lifted my spirits. Its just that lately I have become very insecure, so I always seem to question everything over and over again, even when i know the answer. But your insight has really allowed me to regain my confidence. I couldnt call Missy any earlier, because I feared that she would say "I only see you as a friend." But the way you see the whole situation, it makes perfect sense. Its hard to see any other way around it, and my mind works in a very pessimistic manner, thus it is hard for me to see the good of it all.

I remember the day we met as if it were yesterday. She was oblivious to all of my feelings, until I just had the urge one day to spill them out to her. Unfortunately I heard what I didnt want to hear. But that was back in October when she found out. The way things are looking now, it seems everything will work out for the best. I can honestly say that I can see myself spending the rest of my life with her, regardless of how young I am.

I had written a similar article to Enigma, but the advice I got wasnt what I wanted to hear. Therefore, I felt I needed to be very detailed, and include everything I remembered from the trip. I mean no disrespect to Enigma, her insight has helped me many times before, granting me much hope, as you have.
By the way I havent seen her lately on the site, I wonder whats up, not to mention Phil.

Anyway, I intend on calling Missy this weekend. I hope to God I will hear the words I want to hear. Once again, thank you for your words of wisdom. You, along with Phil and Enigma, are among the best this site has to offer support and advice.

Thank you

Andres.

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Friday, July 23, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma