me and my girlfriend have been goin out for a little over 4 months. we always talk on the phone and stuff but when we r together we are really shy and stuff.
is there anything i or we can do? i really need help. please help
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--- Tuesday, July 27, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Hehehehe!
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
LOL Emma! Telling people to pick up the booze! *wipes tear from eye*
It's a great suggestion, though, if you're of age. If you aren't go for coffee. It's normal to have some anxiety, you just need to do more things together.
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Well, depending on how old you are - how about having an alcoholic drink when you're out together? Not that I'm suggesting you both get hammered - it's just, alcohol can get rid of intense nerves & if you try it just once to become a little more tactile around each other it's no big deal :)
Try not to be self-conscious; you both like each other otherwise you wouldn't be going out so keep that thought in your mind - "she likes me, she wants me to hold her hand" and so on...
Just have some confidence & ignore those nerves - it's never nice in situations where you can't be yourself so change things today :)
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