my bf were dating and after 3 years we part and he had another girl that I knew and never got along with.because I love him.
that time we have pretty daughter , our daughter only 2.5 olds. well its now 5 years later .some time he come to see our daughter. I having a hard time excepting his past with his another gf.I 've take care of daughter behold pearl.I'm always waiting for him one day will be back .I'm just dont know what to do and I want make intact family with my bf .please help me
why I want my bf back because
1,I never do any inaccuracy to my bf
2,I have together with my bf very happy at past time .we love each other .I love my bf then I have choosing nativity his daughter and never use daughter intimidate for my bf for marry .
3.when I know my bf has another gf. i'm also do everything for help my bf .(study,money,life etc)because I still love him.
4,Foremost --In my heart my bf is best man in this world . whether he has another gf.I can't accept another man.
5,at past 5 years my bf come to look our daughter just few times.but now he come every week.
I want know my bf true mentality now,how to say or do with my bf and then I can get it? Please..............
Responses to this article:
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
I agree with Enigma. Fanny, what is so good about a guy if he abandons his child? You and your baby deserve so much more.
Take care.
Sam -- formerly known as "Phil"
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Fanny,
You've got a child with this guy right?
He is with another girl now, and has only recently starting coming around to see his own child... is this correct?
Fanny, if this is the situation, let me tell you that this guy is a creep... sorry, but regardless IF things worked out for you and him so long ago, and regardless IF he has a new girlfriend now... he essentially abandoned HIS CHILD.
This isn't okay no matter how you look at it.
Beware ANY PERSON who could do that to thier own flesh and blood Fanny... if he could go on with his life for so long and not come see his daughter or support her... don't think for a single minute he couldn't or wouldn't turn on you.
My two cent's... you and your daughter deserve a whole lot more than this guy has been giving... and he doesn't need to be acting like he is doing you or her any favors because he comes by once a week NOW to check on her... being a parent means doing the right thing 24-7 365 days a year... you don't get to pick and choose when it's convienant.
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 -
Answer by: nikki
you should ask him what he sees in this girl if shes only using him for his money, and tell him that shes ruining the relationship between him and his daughter.
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 - I want he back home 's reason
Answer by: fanny
my bf come to see my daughter because he know that girl not good woman now.when I know he has that girl and looked that girl I have told him that girl not really love him just for money. 1,when my bf with that girl he never come to see daughter. 2,we havn't any not good thing for part just for that girl. 3,if he has problem I have help for him opposite he do it too (when he know I have truble)
--- Monday, July 26, 2004 -
Answer by: nikki
it sounds like your having a really hard time accepting this man with another woman. but if its been 5 years since youve dated him and hes with someone else then i think its time to let him go. it might be the hardest thing you ever do but remember all wounds heal in time. and if he comes to visit your daughter every week then theres no reason why you cant be good friends even best friends. and i know it might seem inposible to ever love anyone other than him again but theres someone for everyone and you will find your someone.
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