im only 15 ok i have a girlfriend that i love so much and she loves me too. i was just at her house yesterday and we were just by ourselves and i wanted to kiss her really bad and stuff. she is really shy and im shy too but she wants me to kis her. i no how and stuff but how should i make the move cuz she is too shy to. pleas help me i really need help.
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--- Sunday, August 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Hmm yeah, thinking about something too much then planning how you're going to go about it tends to have the effect of a potentially VERY awkward situation - which is never a good thang.
Relax, enjoy her company & if at any point you feel like holding her hand or giving her a hug, just do it. Don't give into that shyness which is holding you back right now. You know she wants you to become more tactile so you really should hold onto that thought when you're with her.
If you both love each other like you say you do - think of all this as a natural way of expressing that love. Don't rush into 'other things' until your relationship has matured, but that's not what you're talking about anyway ;)
Have a little more confidence & think of how great things'll be when kissing & hugging her becomes part of spending time alone together.
Best of luck with things @:-)
--- Friday, July 30, 2004 -
Answer by: confuzed gurl
well if u want to kiss her and she wants to kiss u then u should make the first move
--- Friday, July 30, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
First... and I know you don't want to hear this... but I digress...
Don't get yourself into things you're not ready for, please... okay?
While kissing and holding hands isn't a bad thing... please really really REALLY think things through if the thought of doing anything more is crossing your mind... and since you're 15 i'm pretty sure it has... so be careful, use common sense and don't feel you need to do more than you're ready for.
Okay... thats out there.
So the next time you have some time to spend with your girlfriend alone... let it happen naturally you know? Don't make a huge issue out of it, or it's going to feel awkward and wierd to both of you.
I'm pretty sure there have been moments when you were close that you could touch her face... maybe start with that... lean in and kiss her.
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