Ok~so, today, he calls me and wakes me up in the morning to say 'Good Morning and wish me a good day.' Then, later today he called to tell me that when he saw me when I dropped my daughter off that I looked very pretty today. And tonight he tripped me up bigtime! I told him that I felt we should just break it off and cut our losses because I feel I have lost so much already waiting on him and getting nothing in return--it was much more in depth and much more adult--but this is the bare bones of it anyway. He BEGGED me not to break it off; he asked me to just think about it, pleaded that I not go. He promised he would try to invest more time and assured me it was not a lack of desire to be with me, but a lack of time to share and nothing else. He apologized for falling asleep with his son and not calling me back every day this week and he wants to make plans for this weekend... What the hell am I supposed to do with this??
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--- Thursday, July 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Wow. No wonder you're so torn over this situation.
My advice is for you two to get out this weekend as planned, and have a nice, intimate dinner out. This will be a great opportunity for you to talk to him about your feelings. Tell him what you want and what you want from him in this relationship. If he truly cherishes you as he says -- he will make time for you and do what he can on his part. However, remember that actions say more than words. Don't let him keep you on the run around. It's not fair for him to send you mixed messages and it's not fair that he's putting you on the backburner here. Don't let him do this to you again, or he will keep doing it.
I really hope he's sincere here and he gives you what you deserve -- a man who's there for you!
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