I've been w/ my man for over a year and a half and things have always been great. I love him very much and we're really close. We have this mutal friend we both met a few months ago( we'll just call him Ned). Ever since I met him We've just had this natural bond just by talking. he's cute and funny and smart and I'm scard I'm crushing on him. I would never do anything to hurt my man and Ned wouldn't neither. If I wasn't w/ my guy I would be w/ Ned...and he just knows this just by being around each other. We've never been together alone an the cemistery between us is just overwelming. My question is how do I get rid of these feelings...I don't want to hurt my love.
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--- Thursday, July 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Cami,
You've been with your boyfriend for almost 2 years... so it's normal and natural that the "high" you once felt with him has diminished somewhat, and now you're "comfortable" in the relationship...
While thats okay, and normal as well... I would suggest doing some things that are out of the ordinary with your man... try to be a little more romantic with him...
It's normal as well, to "crush" on someone... especially when you find the attraction is mutual and you have common ground. The thing to recognize is this... there is a difference between enjoying attention from someone and acting upon an attraction.
If you feel this "crush" is getting out of hand, then put it in perspective... this is just that a "crush" and the man you're with is the person who knows you... the good, the bad, and the ugly LOL!
Try not to spend to much time with this guy, especially alone until or if you are able to get ahold of how you're feeling.
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