Title:
Can anybody help Nancy for winning a guy?Plaese !!
By: freenancy
Dear Friends,
I like a guy who is friend of mine but i want him to be mine lifepartner.Infact we were more than a friends a couple of month ago but i feel that we are still more than a friend. He wants to end up this as a friend so kindly guide me the way to win his heart so that he may choose me as his life partner.He cares about me ,always with me when i am in trouble ... but not as a boyfriend .
I want him to feel for me infact want him that he may just want me as his life partner ....Are you getting na what i mean........i want him to be madly in love for me .
I had an boy friend but i break offed due to some reasons and had told him about my ex-boyfriend infact he helped me in doing this also as that boy was overpossessive and over demanding......etc.. I want to tell him each and every thing about my past but he had never asked so i concluded he did not want to go further.... I asked him straight forwardly will you marry me ....he replied no......
He is typical capricorn guy and i am aquarian.
Plaese help me..................... You know since when i heard he wants to end up as a friend, my meaning of life has changed. i have become dull. Feel depressed and unenthusiactic towards life...
Please help me out and give me the way to convert this into lifelong relationship.Please ..Please... Help me out.......... Thanks in advance Nancy
Responses to this article:
--- Sunday, August 22, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Nancy, the bottom line is - though it may be difficult to take - he isn't interested in being more than a friend to you... You know, friends aren't a bad thing to have, many people don't have them & if he's the sort of guy who's always going to be there for you then really you should be thankful he's in your life.
You know what they say - if you love someone then you'll set them free - you won't try to think up some "strategy" to change the way they feel in their heart. You want him to be happy don't you?
These feeling you have will pass, you just have to realise that what you want can never be. That may be tough but it's true. At least he is being honest with you. I'm sure he wants you to be happy... with someone else & you will be.
Perhaps you need to do a little more soul searching before you get involved with someone else because there exists the risk that you will be bringing baggage into any new relationship... which will only lead to further heartache.
Someone who's right for you is out there Nancy; you've just got to find him. In time - you will, for now you should enjoy this friendship & learn more about what it is you want from a guy...
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