Thanks friends for showing me the path ....ya you are true i am dailly dying ,i am hurting myself most...You know i was the person who keeps self respect as the most priority but now i dont have my self respect.yesterday when i could not controlled my emotions i sms him that "i am missing you". Actually I miss him emotionally not physically,you know what he replied "you should go to sleep now".I felt so bad that my feelings has no value... I am really thankfull of you all for raising my self respect and making me believe that i will definitly get someone who will really care for me , much better than him......but you see now i have lost faith, trust etc valueable things....now i can never trust any guy ... anyway i have to live with this believe that he is not mine not even mine friend ... this is really very tough but i will try to do it. Once again thanks from the broken heart:( byeeeeeee Nancy
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--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Nancy, you can do so much better than this girl! Value yourself more. Ya know sometimes in life no one gives a **** about you & to be all alone in this World takes some getting through but you have shown so much strength... can't you see that? Others might have been tempted to just throw the towel in; to give up on life completely but you have not.
This guy doesn't deserve you anyway so don't go giving him anymore satisfaction - you CAN live life without him. Just have a little more confidence in yourself; go shopping, get a new look. Anything - just don't wallow in these bad feelings - it's unhealthy & you're strong enough to be independent with only yourself to rely on.
Best of luck @:-)
--- Tuesday, August 24, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Nancy -- come on honey, he is lovin' every second of this attention and this groveling from you. Stop this, ok? He is a CLOWN and you are lowering yourself for him -- come on, snap out out it!
What do you miss about him emotionally? He has given you NOTHING as far as a relationship goes -- you are in an unheathy relationship by a man who is using you to his own advantage... what a loser this guy is.
I responded further in your "need help" post. If you have any more questions let me know, but I think everyone has told you what you needed to hear. You need to move on, Nancy. There is better out there in the world.
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