Title:
Please help me i'm gay and i'm getting married
By: JPL
Help me please.I'm a guy and I'm gay and in a couple of weeks I'll be married to a girl that I love very much and I don't want to hurt her feelings I didn't know I was gay when I asked her to marry me.And then a couple weeks after I asked her I didn't feel attracted to her anymore!But I didn't want to tell her because I was too afraid to,so please help me give me any advice at all on how I can get through this please!
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, November 16, 2004 - somebody who wont reveal there name due to wpp
Answer by: BruteTAH
how can you be sure your gay. once your sure than go away from the marriage and get a gay boyfriend, move to kentucky and get married
--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 - Re: JPL
Answer by: Guy
Many people have gitters and what not before getting married, perhaps this is one of them. Isn't Love whats supposed to be after the initial attraction ends, for if your getting married just based on looks thats a bad thing. Just because you don't feel atracted to her at the moment doesn't make you gay. Its probably just a phase of pre-marital gitters. I'd say evaluate how you truely feel before you brake it off. Best of Luck.
Signed, Guy
--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Whoa JPL! Be honest to your friend & to yourself here... the damage it'll cause to everyone involved is unthinkable, not to mention yourself; this must be tearing you apart?
If you "love" this girl; you'll set her free; you won't allow her to continue a day longer in Fool's Paradise. It seemed you rushed into proposing to her, so really you don't have the excuse of being hurried into anything by anyone else.
You are effectively depriving this girl of a love she thinks she's found with you & that is terribly cruel... to mess up someone's life like that KNOWING the way you feel. You know already what you must do...
Tell her today, then everyone can begin living the lives they want to lead; you included.
--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
You just have to tell her the truth. It will hurt her like hell, but if you are sure you aren't attracted to her and that you're gay you have to tell her ASAP. There's nothing moreto say here except that she deserves that honesty. Let her go so she can find love with someone else.
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