what r the reasons a girl would break up with her bf because of boredom? My gf broke up with me after 4 months. everything was goin well. I always respected her, gave her little gifts, and she was happy with me. she called me a sweetheart and everything. We never had any probs, till out of the blu she comes and tells me she doesnt have feelings for me anymore. she said she got bored with me and only wanted to be friends. I was so heartbroken. i mean shes a great girl and everything, but i began to get angry at everyone just to release my stress. ever since then we have grown farther apart. she said she didnt really understand why she lost interest in me, she just did. then she siad i wasnt the kinda guy she wanted to be with. idk i just need to know what u think y she dumped me and lost her feeliins. dont accuse her of goin after another guy or cheatin on me cuz this happned a few months ago and shes been single ever since. i still luv her and i kno i have to get over her, but i just wana know the reasons why a girl would leave her bf out of boredom.
thnk u.
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--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Enigma has given some of the best advice I can think of; Young people can be very fickle -- though at some point in high school it isn't so bad. Feelings at this point are alot more stable than most people would like to admit. However, this isn't always true. Woman are the creatures who can be a bit stubborn when it comes to telling how they feel. They will tell you everything else in the world and leave out what is really bothering them. I don't think she left you out of bordem; strickly a loss of interest. She said you weren't the type of guy she'd like to be with herself. However, it may be because she's eyeing someone else and needs her space to attain their attention. I really couldn't tell from inadequate info. about relationship ending. But you have to accept the way she feels at this point no matter how it feels. If this fickle (supposedly) chick decides to come and salvage whatever she can from, you would have to play the game seriously or you'll be hert again. Good luck man!
--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
It is entirely possible that the reason she gave you for the break up is exactly that... she lost interest, got bored and/or she decided you're not the guy she wants to date...
Anything is possible... and just because her currant status is single, it is still possible that she has her eye on someone else... sorry.
People can be very fickle, especially when they are still in high school... I know you care about her, and I know you're hurt... but hang in there. Just because her fickle ways are not in your favour today, doesn't mean they won't be in a month.
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