ya Friends you all are right infact i also feel the same way that he is using me even i told him on his face that you are using me ...... But you see i feel very lonely and infact very bad when i saw couples moving around in college ,taking care of each other,it all bring tears in my eyes, the one which just i drink i had no other way , i hade no shoulder to reply on inspite of having my name attached with a guy... Ya i am trying my level best to move away from him i hope God will give strength to come out of this. Please pray for me that i may come out of this and will get good guy in my life. I would like to thank you all for reading mine stupid stuff and helping me in every possible way... Really thankfull to all you. With regards nancy...
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--- Thursday, August 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Listen to my pal Em there, Nancy, she is speaking words of wisdom.
Nancy, don't get so down on yourself or be so hard on yourself. This is ONE jerk we're talking about here -- one JERK who has used you. He is the one who has the problems here and he's the one who should be down on himself for treating you -- a special and wonderful person -- like dirt. He's a loser, Nancy. Don't let the kind of person like that bring you down.
YOU, Nancy, have so much worth. You are better than him and what he's "offering" you. With every mistake we make in life, with every pain we experience -- we become STRONGER. Believe in yourself and hang in there. Your prince is still out there, and the sooner you let this clown go, the sooner you will meet Mr. Right.
Tell this one to take a hike, Nancy. You are better than he is.
--- Thursday, August 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Nancy, rest assured that God WILL give you the strength that you need to get through this, He is already, maybe you just don't realise it :)
These feelings you have when you observe couples who appear to be so much in love applies to singletons too. I, for one, certainly understand how you feel... it can be difficult - but when you come through this always remember that there's light at the end of the tunnel; no matter how dark things seem now... the right guy is somewhere out there waiting for you...
You don't need to thank us; it's what we visit this site for - to help people & if we are achieving that, then that's all that matters. Should you need anyone to pour your heart out too again please post!! Sometimes we don't have people in our lives to help us out of seemingly terrible situations so I really would like you to know that I'm always checking in here every day - Sam & Enigma offer highly appreciated support also :)
You are in my prayers Nancy; but, I believe, that you are stronger than you give yourself credit for. Stand on your own two feet, do things that you enjoy - treat yourself - ANYTHING to take your mind off this guy. He's not worth it simply because Mr. Right could pass you by whilst you continue letting him & the past plague your mind... & life is too short.
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