Title:
married for 2 years and lost sexual attraction
By: jenns510
I don't know why I lost sexual attraction to my husbanc. He is a great guy and feel that we are so compatible
in so many ways exept in the bedroom. I have told
him how I feel many times. It gets better for a little
while then goes back to the same. What do I do? How
do I get my feelings back?
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, August 20, 2004 - For a real good answer ....
Answer by: Gregg
For a real good answer, a lot more information and details would be needed about what is the problem with sex and your husband. And this is not the place to discuss it. However, you can contact one of the Love Pros who are professional counselors and discuss it with them. Or go to a counselor like Sam suggests.
--- Thursday, August 19, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Go to marriage counseling and/or sex therapy.
There may be an issue with you just, well... not being satisfied and you desire some more um, "changes" OR you may just want some more spice in your life... in that case GO to an adult store or a lingerie shop... communicate what you want to do and what you would love to experience... keep telling your husband what you want from him.
You may be having some hormonal changes (perhaps menopause? Sorry -- you don't mention your age) or you may be taking certain medications that will affect your hormones and therefore deliver sexual side effects...
This is something that CAN be fixed, so don't worry so much. You two just need to figure out WHAT will solve the problem.
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