ok here goes...i was in a relationship with a beautiful younger girl. many kids in my grade dont mind that she is much younger but earlier in the week, people had been telling her that i had made-out with another girl other than her. and it is 100% false. i would never do that. but because of this nasty rumor she has decided to break up with me and think about it but she claims she still loves me and will go back out with me. but i have tried hard to convince her it's not true. at this point all i feel i can do is make sure i love her but i don't know how because it seems she will never believe that i never did any such thing. so, my question is...what do i do to get her to believe me or realize that i love her so much i wouldn't do any sort of thing?
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--- Sunday, August 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi ajaj123,
At this point there is nothing you can do. You tell them your side of the story and give the little proof you can scoop. After giving someone your WORD, it's up to them to decide how to take action. If she likes you enough, and only if she does, she'll be considerate enough to listen to your side of the story. As of now, you should be wondering about her feelings for you. Your fault is only theory for now. If proof isn't strong enough for her to kick you, she shouldn't be so hard on you; that is unless her motive was to dump you to begin. But that doesn't give her too much of a reason to be a bit skeptical of you. Just makek sure you don't catch her in some other guys face -- that would really reveal her motive. Just like God, woman also work in mysterious ways to get the result(s) they desire. You say you went through hell to get her to believe you didn't do it; now it's her turn to close it off. Don't make ANY moves -- let her initiate.
Good Luck...Until George Bush kills us...
--- Sunday, August 29, 2004 -
Answer by: lilkiss4u
I guess the only thing u can do now is this: give ur gf sum time to think things over and by doing this she'll know that shes doing the rite thing. Rumors like that would upset anybody..u have a nice, caring bf and then she hears u've made out with sumone else..just let her be and give her space. u say that she still loves u, well there you go..asuming u didnt really go behind her back..? sum time apart can do good and rite now i guess shes just hurting, give her time and show her u still love her and she'll cum around. Hope i helped and good luck..
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