I was just wondering whether there is anyone out there who has got back with an ex after no contact. Im worried that no contact will make my ex forget about me. and has anyone had an ex ignore all their texts and emails and then after sometime made contact. I feel that with each new day my ex is forgetting me. he hasnt missed me since we broke up
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--- Friday, September 17, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Nab, Listen okay?
IF he was that into you, he wouldn't NEED to be reminded that you're great (because you are!) he wouldn't NEED to be reminded that you're an awesome person who treated him well (because you did)
Stop holding on to this crap girl. Stop making excuses for why he does this, that, the other... he does it for one simple reason Nab, and that is he's an asshole.
I have an excellent book to recommend to you Nab, it's called "he's just not that into you" and i'm very serious here, you NEED to read it Nab.
My favorite thing in the whole book is this when you're boyfriend says or become to "busy" then the word "busy" is just another name for asshole and asshole is another name for the guy you were dating.
For the love of God Nab, LET IT GO! You're NOT going to feel any better until you do, and you're not going to meet anyone else who DOES want to spend time with you nd DOES appreciate you as long as you continue to wonder why this other guy is a jackass.
It doesn't matter why he's a jackass Nab.... let him be toxic in someone else's life and find a new guy who can't keep his eye's or hands off you;) trust me Nab that guy IS OUT THERE.
So close up the Ben & Jerrys carton, take off the stinky sweatpants and old crappy tshirt the ex left at your house a million years ago... get in the shower Nab, turn off the "I can't live without songs" and get your butt up and out of the damn house to meet that guy who is crazy about you!
IF the EX is to retarded to miss you and needs to be "reminded" that he does or will, then he needs to keep on riding the short bus girl and you need to be having the door opened up by a REAL MAN to drive your cute butt to dinner;)
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