Title:
signals from women,and how to approach them
By: ctwist
Ihave a big problem with signals from women I can never read them.Itry my best to read them but i really cant.My other problem is approaching women,i just can never find the rite things 2 approach wome with.
So plz show me how women give there signals
and also some approaching women lines LOL
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, September 10, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi Twist,
Right on Emma! Excellent advice - and hey, there's no other way to put it. All woman/men are different; they approach and handle things differently. You can't make moves on someone and expect them to work on someone else, or "anybody" else. Relax and be confident because nothing's worse than a scary man approaching a woman,, if there is, tell me about this phenominal strange happening. If you get rejected, atleast they'll respect you for being real and upfront about your feelings. If you hold back, you'll always wonder "what if", or "if I only had..." -- trust me; this is not a good feeling at all.
Also, when you have initiated into a conversation, ask for her phone number before you leave; the home phone number by the way. I don't think I even needed to say this because it's soo obvious. Only about 1 of about every 6 woman are likely to give possitive results -- depending your appearance; yeah, I'mma be real about it. In fact alot of woman/men don't even give you a chance. Before you approach them they know what they want [based on your physical appearance.] From then on, they decide what they want from you and this isn't always "just you" -- if not your wallet. Sorry if people look at me crazy for saying these things but it's all noteworthy. When you DO get a living soul, do the right thing man. What more can I say?
Good Luck... Until Monday. reedplex@excite.com
--- Friday, September 10, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Well, I don't think it's ever appropriate to throw all women into the same category here... ya know? Everyone's different, just like guys - they're not ALL dorks ;)
Some women play hard to get, as do guys. Some women are forthcoming, as are guys. I could go on... but really, like I say EVERY woman is different, one rule can never apply to all in any situation!
First off, be selective about who you approach - since this minimises the risk of knock back (you might even vaguely know them - admired them far a far), be confident with who you are - women like that.
Of course, you shouldn't always be in a situation where you need to approach women, in clubs say... if this isn't for you - join a society/class since there you'll be in a better position to let your true personality shine instead of not only appearing, but feeling 'phoney'.
As for "approaching women lines"... hmmmmm - well I'm no expert, nor have I ever had any tested out on me but normally they produce bad reactions, don't they? They're corny, badly worded & worst of all - REHEASERED - all you have to do is BE YOURSELF (since that is what you're offering, ain't it?!)
How about "Hi! My name's ctwist(!), can I get you a drink?" Then you take it from there, being yourself always! Ask questions, sound interested - sorted!
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