Title: sexual people

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If a girl of 16 years of age says she is a sexual person, does tht immediately tell you tht she is slutty? u see, i have a friend whom i met online. she is really pretty and i like her. we live about 2 hours away, and we still have yet to meet in person.

well, 1 day i got this email tht sent me to a link where i was supposed to take like a little test to predict my love life. I didnt believe in anyof this, but i did it just outta curiosity. it asked me so many personal questions, and wen i submitted it it told me tht it was a trik and all the answers were being sent to "someone i know". it was anonymous, but my freind later told me it was him.

So it was just a joke, and i just had some fun with it, wen i realized i sent it to the girl tht i like. it was an accident, but she wouldnt kno it was from me.

well, to my surprise she responded, and her answers startled me. one of the questions was- are u a sexual person, and she said yes. tht really bothers me because i dont want to be thinking she is a slutty kind of girl. is there a difference? are most girls sexual nowadays? like could they think sexually, but just wait till they r older to do sexual things. she is a good person, nice, smart, good student. i didnt expect this from her.

so is it possible tht being sexual does not define "slut"? i thought she was a good girl. is it possible tht even tho she says shes "sexual" tht she knows the consequences of having intercourse at this age, so she is smart enough to wait till shes older?

thnks

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Friday, September 17, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam