If a girl of 16 years of age says she is a sexual person, does tht immediately tell you tht she is slutty? u see, i have a friend whom i met online. she is really pretty and i like her. we live about 2 hours away, and we still have yet to meet in person.
well, 1 day i got this email tht sent me to a link where i was supposed to take like a little test to predict my love life. I didnt believe in anyof this, but i did it just outta curiosity. it asked me so many personal questions, and wen i submitted it it told me tht it was a trik and all the answers were being sent to "someone i know". it was anonymous, but my freind later told me it was him.
So it was just a joke, and i just had some fun with it, wen i realized i sent it to the girl tht i like. it was an accident, but she wouldnt kno it was from me.
well, to my surprise she responded, and her answers startled me. one of the questions was- are u a sexual person, and she said yes. tht really bothers me because i dont want to be thinking she is a slutty kind of girl. is there a difference? are most girls sexual nowadays? like could they think sexually, but just wait till they r older to do sexual things. she is a good person, nice, smart, good student. i didnt expect this from her.
so is it possible tht being sexual does not define "slut"? i thought she was a good girl. is it possible tht even tho she says shes "sexual" tht she knows the consequences of having intercourse at this age, so she is smart enough to wait till shes older?
thnks
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, September 17, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
It depends. Is she meaning that she is a sexual person because she is hormonal, or does she mean what I think she is implying -- that she is having sex? If it is the latter -- she is definitely not virtuous...
People make mistakes and I'm not judging anybody on that -- but for her to claim that she's a sexual person at so young an age is disturbing. I would bet that she is a girl with low self esteem to think that she doesn't have anything to offer except her sexuality. Damn those pop stars for doing this to society...
You have a right to be concerned. It is the teenage age group that are getting and spreading STD's, and getting pregnant -- there are so many social problems associated with teenage sex.
So -- ask yourself if this is a girl that you wish to get involved with. If she is saying she is a "sexual person" at 16, she is trouble.
--- Thursday, September 16, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Jeez!
PEOPLE are "Sexual people" for Godsake!
Listen, i'm not trying to be mean here but for real! It bothers me that you think because she said she is a sexual person that means "I'm a slut" what was your answer on that question uh?
IF your answer was YES you're a sexual person, does that mean that you're a slut? (yes I really do think guys can be sluts) Now I realize and understand that she is only 16 and as far as i'm concerned shouldn't be having sex this young.... however if she has or is that still doesn't make her a slut.
Last thing here, just because someone says they are "sexual" doesn't even mean they are having sex. Your friend is STILL the same smart, good girl that she was BEFORE she answered your little quiz.
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