I previously wrote in the article, "Mixed signals...Am I being used?". Thank you so much for the responses, they were thoughtful and greatly appreciated. I took them to heart.
My story continues however. I realized yesterday that it was probably my worst day at school, we didnt talk and I found out he was calling some other girl, to her face, hot. I also realized that I let it be my worst day at school. It's up to me if I truely feel something.
There are many people who would disagree and find this impossible. But I think I like him more than like, like really care. I've never even hung out with him by myself, yet I've also never felt this feeling. Like I've said before, I have had boyfriends and many crushes, but he, he really knows how to make me feel special.
I figured out that he wasn't using me..he genuinly wanted help. I really want to take this to the next level. I thought about going up to his friend and just mentioning the fact I can't get over how awesome/gorgeous his friend is. I know he'd go back and tell him :-) But that'd seem so awkward especially since It'd be completly random. I've got his attention...now I need to let him know that I like him. I am such an amature at this....
That's where all of you wonderful ppl come in handy. Just let me in on how I can do this? What should I say? Should I go up to his friend. I really have thought this through and know that since it's something I truely want, I gotta work for it. If this was just a crush I'd let you know. There is something there.
PLEASE HELP ME!! GIVE ME AS MANY RESPONCES AS POSSIBLE I really would appreciate it :-)
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, September 17, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi LovesTough100,
Sam's correct...
Nothing's worse than sending messages via friends and associates (whatever you call them). You don't get to hear what's really on the persons mind because they wouldn't really confide there feelings toward you to others; end of discussion. However, if you approach the person yourself, you'll know "exactly" how they feel -- weeding out the incompatible guys. Lay down Saturday night and think about these things for a while. You don't want to end up penalizing yourself when someone else salvages what left. Lying in the bed saying to yourself: "if I had only," or "what if..." isn't a great at ALL. I'm not saying that you should be "super aggressive" or anything --- you are the only one who knows for sure what's right. You heard it all...
Good Luck... reedplex@excite.com
--- Friday, September 17, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Honestly, don't go around and have his friend tell his friend this and that... that is silly. :-) Talk to the guy yourself. Ask him what's up and if he's doing anything on this night. Say, "I'd like to go see this movie, wanna join me?" Be casual about it and don't make it a big deal.
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