Alright, long story short, my ex and I broke up because of some differences, and I don't think she was over her ex. I still love her. We broke up over a year ago. She has 1 kid, but it's not mine, but i think he's awesome.
Tonight, we went out for dinner, just as friends, like we usually do, although I usually want to take her and kiss her and tell her I love her and that I want her back. Tonight she was talking about some other guys, but every time she'd say "But I dont see us dating" "US" being her and whoever she's talking about. She was saying how the only guy she knows who doesnt just act nice as a front, but truly is is me.
Last week we were talking, when i wasnt quite single yet, and i told her I still care for her, and she had said "No offence but all i care about right now is me and my little guy." When we went out for lunch a little while ago though, as we got to her place she hugged me and I kissed her on the cheek, and she always stops mid-sentence and smiles and looks away when i do. Tonight she didn't seem to be into the hugging thing, so I didn't attempt to hug her. But it's confusing signals, and I'm not sure if she's into me or not. She's got these remarks sometimes that make me wonder, like never talking about wanting another kid before, but now she is, talking about wanting to own a house, getting all interested about my maybe moving out, etc. DOes anyone know what she's up to? PLEASE????? Cause I love her and want her back, but I'm so afraid she'll reject me.
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--- Monday, September 20, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Mistified,
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, When someone tells you they don't want to date YOU and they don't have time or a desire to care about YOU, BELIEVE THEM.
You've been broken up for a year... and while you want to remain friends, there is a difference between being friendly and doing what you've been doing which is still holding out hope that there is going to be reconciliation... from what you've said regarding her, that isn't her desire and believe me enough time has gone by that IF she did want that, there wouldn't be any mystery right now as to what she wants.
You need to move on.
--- Sunday, September 19, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Dude -- no offense, but there isn't anything for me to tell you except that you need to move on.
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