Thank u for the advice. I mean we were "dating" before, but I can definitely understand what you're saying. I guess I was extremely vunerable. But , where do I go from here? Do I cut all ties, to see if he possibly realizes anything more? Tell him goodbye? Or just be a normal friend and hang out?
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--- Monday, September 20, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Where you go from here is up to you. What do YOU want from any guy you're interested in? Do you want to be fooled here, into thinking you're his "best friend" while he comes home to visit, has sex with you, and then can goes back to college and sees other girls -- even has sex with them, too? OR -- do you want to have a loving, committed relationship?
Friends with benefits is another way of saying, "I'm using you". If a guy sleeps with you and calls you his "best friend", he is saying no to being your boyfriend, but yes to keeping you in his life as a "friend" so that he can get sex from you without the commitment. I'm not going to tell you what you need to do or what you should do, that's not my position. I'm telling you to have some pride and don't sell yourself short or settle for less than you want in life. You sound like a great person who is way above being a "best friend" to a guy that doesn't treat you like a friend to begin with. You deserve to be treated better than this, period.
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