The strangest thing even happened to me. I was online, and ended up speaking with someone i havent spken to (online) for about 3 years. Turns out, this guy lives next dor to me. Yes very strange.. Fate?? Who knows...
But the thing is, he was REALLY REALLY REALLY nice to me. Txting me lovely things, emailing me, everything. I really thought we could of had something. Then one day, his txts werent as frequent as normal.. So i got thinkin, maybe something was wrong.. But evetually he txt bk... But since that day, he hasnt been as co-operative with me. Earlier today, he came home, and he had a girl in the car with him. I txt askin if it was his gf, no reply... I dont know where i stand, and i dont want to make a fool of myself, as he is my neighbour!
Any ideas what i can do ?
Please reply Thanx Keeli
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--- Thursday, September 30, 2004 - yeh
Answer by: x ~ Keeli ~ x
hey jonathan... I think your right in a way.. But the thing is, we only got talking a little over a week ago, before that i had never even seen him next door! lol.. And when we got talkin, he said he didnt have a girl, and he was inviting me, and some of my mates off the street, to parties they were having. Then i go away for the weekend, come back, and hes a different person.. Maybe he met her whilst out at weekend ?? I dunno.
I cant talk to him, as he never seems to be around when i need him, hes always in bed or out!
Keeli x
--- Wednesday, September 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi Keeli,
If you were to ask me, I'd say he had interest in you BEFORE, then met someone else and now spends more time dealing with her -- not that lacks interest though. It probably WOULD have been wise to start a bit earlier, catching him before someone else did.
Alot of people end up miserable because they didn't make their move sooner, and now an addition of "YOU" to the crew. Sometimes you have to be "more" aggresive and make that first move, and only the first one. If he's dense or lacks interest, it's saves you the time -- ridding you of an extra headache.
There's nothing you really can do as of now. Maybe by some lucky chance she ISN'T his girlfriend [yet], giving you more time to do "something". All you can do is talk to him about these things and see what's up. If they DO go together, there's nothing you "can" do, and nothing you will "attempt" TO do. The way I see it is if he DID by some chance choose her over you, then it wasn't for you two to even be together. I mean, if he wanted you, he could have used the same approach towards YOU as he did to get her... I mean he DOES live next door -- right? He had all the time, space and opportunity in the world to make a move; tell "ME" what's going on. I think you get the drift...
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