well i had the same problem..but i went ahead and took the pain.. Dont do it if your truly not ready..i promise its not worth it. It really hurts alot...for like a week you would be sore. If you dont love and truly care for this person dont do it. WORD OF ADVICE !
--- Sunday, October 3, 2004 - Sam is Exactly Right!!!!
Answer by: lady tee
Kimmy, Sam is exactly correct. Everything that he said was good stuff to know if you are thinking about having sex. But, one thing that he forgot to tell you was to not let anyone EVER pressure you to do anything that you are not comfortable doing.
--- Thursday, September 30, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
How old are you, Kimy? I am assuming by your post that you're pretty young, and this worries me. If you're under 18, you're too young to be having sex. And for pete's sake educate yourself on the risks of having sex before you do it. It only take one time to get pregnant, or to get an STD, and don't even get me started on lecturing you about the emotional and mental risks involved. If you do something as serious as having sex when you're not mentally, emotionally, or morally ready -- you could greatly regret it the future and wind up in counseling with some emotional damage. It happens. Who's to say that this young man will stick around after he sleeps with you, or that he gives you a case of the clap, or gets you pregnant? This is serious stuff, Kimy, and you should be more serious about it.
--- Thursday, September 30, 2004 - Don't
Answer by: Gregg@LoveIsGreat.com
If it is too big, don't have sex. Simple. It could hurt a lot, and could bruise you on the inside.
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