Im 21 and Brian is 25. I met this this Guy Brian at my dad's Apprenticeship Graduation Banquet. My dad held the banquet. Brian was an apprentice at the school and graduated last Friday. Anyways at the end of the banquet my mom, dad and his secretary were cleaning up. I walked over by the bar to get a cup of water I was standing there. Jay a friend of my dad was talking with brian. Jay asked me to come over cause he wanted to look at my fingers. I have problems with bad circulation coldness and blueness. He'd never see my fingers before. So we were all standing there and Brian was talking to me he said yeah Im very single now, how about you. And I said Im kinda single and not happy with my relationship now, trying to break up. So he said yeah you'll have those.
So he asked my name and he introduced himself. He asked me who Im here with and I said Im with nobody, Im just here for the party. And he said ok Grecthen Wilson, I started laughing and looked at him he said what think I came up with that name out of no where in funny way. So I said Im the coordinators daugther. He was talking again and he was holding 2 drinks in his hand at the time. My dad came over and Jay started dancing silly while my dad was singing. Brian started to lean over my direction whilw watching and rubed against me. He was startin to turn me on a little. So when we all walked out my mom was in the car and I waited for Brian to finish his drink. He came out he was talking about something. Then he said It was nice to meet a pretty woman like you tonight Emily. I was all excited and happy. So I said thanku, and asked him hey you want to go out sometime, and he said like right now. I was yeah, no really later. He said I really would love to but Im going to be busy for 3 wks, and if it wasn't for this banquet I wouldn't be here.
He said Ive just bought my mom a house, im renting another to an apprentice and I bought another next to mine. I guess hes remoldeling them doing construction then reselling them. So he said Im sure your dad has my number somewhere in the records. So I said well you want my number, he sure. Then that Sunday I had gone to walgreens then as headed back home I wondered where Winkler rd was, cause he said he lived off Ironwood on Winkler. So I did find it drove around the circular rd and saw his truck in the driveway and him in the garage at the saw. I turned around and stoped to say hi. He was out so I wanted to say hi. Anyways he was surprised to see me. He stoped what he was doing then turned around and we talked. So I said I'll let you get back to work. He said see you later Started to back out of driveway, he steped back from saw and waved as i drove away. I want to call him and ask if he would go to the haunted house with me as friends. Or do you think I should respect him what he said and let him call me in a couple wks. I want to know if all these signs and talk means he likes me and wants to go out.
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--- Friday, October 22, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Well.. it seems that he thought you were attractive.. but is he interested.. hmmmm...
I don't want to say no he isn't.. but when he said that your Dad has his number somewhere? Then he didn't ask for your number but took it when you offered... He didn't want to make any plans to hang out with you even for an hour for 3 weeks?!
He hasn't called you... then you show up at his place... he talks to you for a few minutes, never invites you in, again doesn't make any plans to hang out with you and just waved as you drove away... honestly girl... it doesn't look so good (as far as his interest level goes)
So I'm going to say NO don't call him. You've already been the one who's made all the effort here.. gave him your number (when he didn't ask for it) asked him if he would like to go out sometime (he said he was going to be too busy) drove to his house (still no invite) so you know.. I would leave it alone at this point.
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