I am deaf guy and in love with a hearing girl, who I have known for almost 18 years! I was so in love with her, but she said that she still just want friend with me, then why does she keeps asking me out with her and her friends most of the time. Why not she go out with the guy that she likes, not me! It seems like I am wasting my time going out with her while I knew that she will just be friend with me. I have told her not to ask me out again, and that she should hang out with other guy that she loves.
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--- Friday, November 12, 2004 -
Answer by: boycrazy
I think that your friend, not to sound mean, feels sorry for you because of your disability. Maybe she thinks that you won't have anything else to do and is doing you a favor by asking you to hang out with her and her friends...
She could also be trying to get you out to meet other girls and maybe even one of her friends has interest in you. You should try to get to know them and see if anything blossoms.
"That's all I got to say about that" (forest gump ;-) )
--- Wednesday, October 27, 2004 -
Answer by: bryanz da bomb
I still am friend with her, I have accepted that she just want to be friend with me. I still do hang out with her and her friends, I do not mind at all now. I not get emotions anymore when I am around her. I feel better now.
--- Tuesday, October 26, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
Hello again!
Well... here's the deal Bryanz - going out "with friends" doesn't mean she's leading you on or anything. In fact, she's trying to be exactly what she's told you she is - a friend & going out with "other friends" isn't that uncommon ;)
Sorry to be a little sarcastic but you need to get things into proportion here. She knows how you feel & you know how she feels - no grey areas, right?
However, if you do find being in her company is toying with your emotions then politely decline her offer. If she's a friend, as she says she is - she'll understand :)
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