Ok, I wrote a little story last week about how my boyfriend was a piece of crap. I finally ended everything for good a few days ago. I told him to never contact me and leave me alone. He went totally crazy and freaked on me. I had him blocked for a while and he still called me, text messaged me and sent me messages on the computer. Now all of his names on msn are retarted. He is making it out like he broke it off with me. I know it shouldn't be bothering me but it is starting to piss me off. I haven't msg'd him or even tried to get in contact. But how am I suposta not let what he is writing bother me? Why would he write stuff like "good bye to you, you are taking up my time." Like this is already 3 days after the fact.. He also has stuff like "f*** this." and stuff like "i am getting in my car after work and driving until I run outta gas." Augh, I hate it. So annoying. Does anyone know how to help me?? thank you!!!!!!!
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--- Saturday, October 2, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Girl... You know what this reminds me of? One of those guys that is being a punk ass (you know what I'm talking about... the guy who is mouthy and being a jerk in a social setting) talking trash, annoying other people UNTIL someone has had enough of his mouth and enough of his crap comes over and tells him to shut it.
Then he may mumble a few things under his breath at that moment... say something to the effect of "I don't want any trouble with you man" so the annoyed person walks away... ONLY for this punk ass to start telling everyone around him "Good thing he left man, I was getting ready to whip his ass"
LOL it's sad, it's pathetic.. but it happens.
Maybe he needs to convince himself that he was the one who ended it... but you know what, who cares? Kev is right.. just ignore him, show zero reaction... it will only piss him more LOL but you get the last laugh.
--- Saturday, October 2, 2004 - well
Answer by: stiffmeis
I'd say the only thing you can do is show no reaction at all. This will get him more mad and will eventually end this messaging garbage sooner then if you were to continuely say stop or whatnot.. Stay tuff and just ignore the ignorant obtuse remarks.. lol I like that word obtuse.. Anyway yeah just live your life and move ahead. Keep on chugging.. ~kev
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