hay .. i wonder if anyone could help me over come a feeling i have for someone i really love.
met her 1996, known her since then, she moved to overseas, and i currently have someone for 4yrs , shes great and all but she has some downfalls as most ppl do ,..as i do too. but i keep in contact with the other girl who went overseas. the more she talks to me and the more she emails me... i cant stop thinking of her, i have a special bond with her,its a bond on helping her get out of majour depression , although she was distant ever since i met her, i still tried to be there for her. she knows ive been there for her and appreciates it ,. now that shes left overseas she still knows im here for her, its is killing me inside. i realy have tried to get over her! ... but i cant.
i cant even tell her how i really feel as i feel its impossible to do anything . why does life always seem o get us where it hurts most?
i suppose the most dangerous of living species is Humans as we feel way tooo much .
please help me anyone to try and find a soulution to what i could do. ( i will admitt that i would not like the idea of forgetting about her , but life does go on as some people keep reminding me )
Responses to this article:
--- Monday, October 4, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
You're more than welcome;)
--- Sunday, October 3, 2004 - Someone i will never have
Answer by: mmkRXI
Enigma yeah your right... thanks for that eye opener... thats exactly what i needed someone to show me Away from the Fog and into the clear, im strating to see clear , that what ill do is stay with the one for 4 years ... to see if we can make things work . and the one overseas ... well that will just be Friendship.
my Decision actually came to me after think it all throughly and when i had decided , after reading your POST... it was the same to what i had sort of thought.
thanks once again
--- Saturday, October 2, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Well to begin with, you're involved in a relationship of 4 years with someone else... and as far as saying she has downfalls (and I know you said you have them to, so I'm not taking nothing from you here) I think that trying to persue another person when you're already in a relationship with another isn't just a downfall, it's a deal breaker.
I'm not going to say that the girl who is overseas isn't an awesome person, I'm sure she is... but I also think it is very easy for you to imagine her to be this or that, because you haven't ever been in a relationship with her day in day out... and guess what... she has downfalls too.
If you wish to persue the other girl, then that of course is your option... but don't keep your girlfriend there as your back up plan or safety net incase things don't go your way with this other girl. It isn't fair to her.
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