Hi friends,i am totally confused ,I dont know what will happen?I like one guy and his actions and concern shows that he also likes me but whenever i say something emotional like this is for u as a token of love or so he just change the topics or so never express his feelings but we are intimate to each other liking kissing or so ...can please help me what should i do . Should i just broke every relation and behave like strangers or should i continue with him. I really dont know guys thinking....Girls come close only when they really feel for the guy but can anyone tell is this rule applicable to guys also... Thanks in advance Naina
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--- Tuesday, October 26, 2004 - Test him
Answer by: bryanz da bomb
Well, why not you test him to find out if he is really interested in you, and be concered with you when you have problems. Well, I have a good friend, she is deaf, she have a deaf guy in her life, she is in love with him and want a relationship with him, but this deaf guy never show love to her and not interested in relationship, so I told her that I think that he just want her hole, you know, he just want her for sex, not for love or relationship or whatever. So she starts to test him, to see how he react to what she does and what she says to him. So you can try to test him with something like telling him about your life, your problems or something like that.
--- Friday, October 22, 2004 -
Answer by: Emma
I remember a FreeNancy a while back ;)
Hmmmm, first thing - people have different levels of affection that they are comfortable with... This also applies to honesty when it comes to expressing feelings & so on - it's different for everyone, basically.
Something that one person does without even thinking might take a lot of effort & thought by another person. The question really is - how much do you like this guy?
If it's not too serious & you're tiring of the relationship anyway, then maybe it's time you called it a day. On the other hand, if you care a lot for him you need to have a talk with him. Sit him down & tell him how you feel, guys aren't mind readers - no matter how many women expect them to be, it's rarely that straightforward...
He may not realise how you feel & he how reacts so it would be unfair to leave without any explanation. Rest assured, if he feels a lot for you & doesn't want to lose you, he'll open up to you, he'll listen to what you're saying.
One last thing though, he seems comfortable with physical affection - some women don't even get that so it's not all bad :) Maybe he's not ready for the whole "love thang", whatever - I can't tell, nor can anyone else - you need to communicate & see what he says. Only then can you ponder over what you might do next.
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