I had a new girlfriend but she said shes not ready for a commitment. she also says she doesnt want any other guys,but she doesnt want to have to answer to anybody about where shes been or for how long she was gone and last but not least she doesnt want to feel guilty about anything she does,like she would if we were commited,what the hell is that supposed to mean? am I being played or could she be serious? I dont know what to think!! HELP THANKX Bobby
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--- Friday, October 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
This girl is doing nothing wrong to you, Bobby. She has let you know straight up that she didn't want a committment. She doesn't need to report anything to you, she's not your girlfriend. BUT you CAN choose if you wish you stick around and put up with this -- I say move on to something more fulfilling and what you're seeking out of a relationship. You're certainly going nowhere with this one.
--- Friday, October 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi longhabobby,
Check it: leave this girl; she's not marriage, nor relationship material. She let you know right up from that she's probably not going to be loyal to you or anybody. There's isn't much to say about it; in fact, you needed not to seek help with this one -- sooo obvious. Seems to me that you are serious when it comes to relationship, therefore it wouldn't be wise to even consider going into business with this girl. Leave before you develop any strong feelings for her (if you haven't already) and get hurt after finding out that she cheated or lost interest in you. That's where the real pain comes in. You heard it all.
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