I had a new girlfriend but she said she wasnt ready for a commitment and that she doesnt want to have to answer to anyone about where shes been or how long shes been gone. She also says shes not interested in other guys but that she doesnt want to feel guilty for what she does and she wont if were not together. what the hell is she for real or is it a bunch of crap and shes really a slutt going out and getting some elsewhere? HELP THANKX Bobby
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--- Saturday, October 2, 2004 - Agree's
Answer by: stiffmeis
I'm gonna have to agree with Enigma on this one. Soo many girls are labeled "sluts" yet the guys do the exact same thing aren't labeled anything but cool. Fuck that, to put it bletently. I don't like either guys or girls that go to someone just to get some.. but on the other hand what she says contradicts herself. Woman talk is soo confusing, she can't come right out and say what she wants to say.. It's your choice to stay with her or not, so the rules are layed down, the cards are infront of you, you pick "Bet, check, or fold?" ~kev
--- Friday, October 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi longhabobby(again),
Check it: leave this girl; she's not marriage, nor relationship material. She let you know right up from that she's probably not going to be loyal to you or anybody. There's isn't much to say about it; in fact, you needed not to seek help with this one -- sooo obvious. Seems to me that you are serious when it comes to relationship, therefore it wouldn't be wise to even consider going into business with this girl. Leave before you develop any strong feelings for her (if you haven't already) and get hurt after finding out that she cheated or lost interest in you. That's where the real pain comes in. You heard it all.
Good Luck... jonathanreed@usa.com
--- Friday, October 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Well gosh Bobby with those sweet words to describe her... I can't imagine why she didn't want to be your girlfriend...
I'm going to guess that the post below this one is yours as well... where she is not just a slut but a lying slut... how precious.
What makes you think that because she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you exclusively that it makes her a slut? For real Bobby... IF she isn't married to you, and she hasn't made any promises to you, and your not her Dad (and thats only if she's a minor) then guess what... she doesn't owe you anything.
If YOU were seeing someone else and/or having sex with them... would that then make YOU a slut? Hmmmmm....
You have zero proof that she see's or dates anyone else... you have zero proof that she is "getting it somewhere else" but wow... you are so willing to make the assumtion that because she isn't having sex with you, she must be a "slut" and getting it somewhere else....
Jeez!
--- Friday, October 1, 2004 - well...
Answer by: 392064193
well, she's right about the fact that she doesnt have to answer to anyone and things like that, and u need to understand that....but if she's making such a big deal about it and she wont simply jus answer your questions, you might wanna talk to her about and find out whats up w/ her these days!
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