for the past few months I have really liked a guy friend of mine. he is probably one of the nicest guys in the world....but as a single guy he likes to hook up with girls left and right...
so for the past few parties I guess you can say I have been kind of playing hard to get, but not really that extreme. the party before last, I kept hinting I liked him but in the end I just walked away not a major thing or anything...
well friday nite I went to a little get together among our friends, and usually he is a craazy partier and such but that nite he barely got drunk. he was sober. but he put his arm around me, and was holding my hand, and he was flirting very bad with me. nothing else happened...but this kind of confuses me.
part of me wants to believe the because he wasn't the normal "drunk" that nite that him being this way with me means he may have feelings for me.....and I mean, he could of easily kissed me and things could of easily gone further but it didnt which also leads me to believe that maybe he respected me enough not to do anything??
but then the other part of me thinks well....he is the player I know. I just dont know what to think.
I talked to him last nite onlne for the first time and we actualyl had a good conversation. I dont know what to think.
help me please~~~!!!
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, November 2, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
((((Fenix)))
Damn I missed you!
Beautiful Disaster... I'm sorry to hijack your post for a moment.. Carry on...
--- Tuesday, November 2, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
FENIX! Great to see you back here! We all were hoping to see you come around again.
Honestly, I have to say that I agree with Fenix... this guy is after one thing alone, and it's not pursuing a relationship. BeautifulDisaster -- you are honestly best moving on. When it comes to relationships -- parties and bars aren't exactly the places to meet a potential mate. They generally are meat markets.
Goodluck.
--- Monday, November 1, 2004 - Played
Answer by: fenix1230
I can only surmise from your story that you're most likely in College, or High School. Either way, why you didn't post on the Teen Love Board is beyond me, because that's where this post belongs.
Obviousness aside, you're pretty much being taken for a ride. This guy is a player. He will always be that way, regardless of what you think you can do, or what his recent actions might say. Guys like to bang chicks. If a guy can bang a new girl every week, then most guys are going to do so. This guy is playing you. You're thinking "Oh, maybe he's different, maybe he's changed. Since I kept my legs closed recently, he'll definitely see the inner me, and why I'm special."
Hate to say this, but he will sleep with you, then take off onto the next great adventure. See, he is into you. He does like you, but only until he gets to bang you, then he's out. Just how it goes.
My advice, find a different guy. But you won't, because he's sooooo cute, and most young girls are soooo stupid and predictable. Have fun, because you're not really playing hard to get, you're just getting played.
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