Title:
Someone Plz help Or ima really hurt & hurt more
By: beebee
i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. Its very hard making this relationship work because im white and he's black. My parents are really against it. But i love him so much on da real. He was my ''first''. He makes me feel like the most special white girl on dis earth when we are together. But all he seems to want is sex and money. He doesnt even call me i have to call him and when i call he asks for money. He tells me he loves me . I told him i thought he was using me for my money and he got all mad and said it wasnt true. Then his ex girlfriend be calling my house saying he's still with her. but he said its just because she wants him back. So i dont know what to believe. Then my cousin April that had even got us together rode by his house and saw anotha black girl sitting on his lap and i called and asked him about it and he said it was his cousin. And of course i cussed him out so he just hung up. Well i called him back like a week later because i really missed him and he hadn't called me. and he acted like everything was cool. and asked me for money! and it was a day before my birthday. and he knew that..i told him all i had was my b-day money and he wanted it!! i was like WTF... he didnt even call me and say happy birthday. but then again he never calls me!! I really love him alot. and he claims he loves me..I know everyone thinks i should dump him and everything. but i cant..i dont have the strength to, when im not with him it feels like im dying. the last time we broke up i tryed to talk to other guys but i couldnt stop thinking about him when i was talking to other guys. I dont know what to do someone please give me some advice to say to him or something.. thanks, beebee
Responses to this article:
--- Thursday, November 11, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Bee Bee, right back attcha;)
--- Sunday, November 7, 2004 - Dont be talking ta me like dat
Answer by: beebee
Enigma i think u need ta watch who u talk to like dat.i was asking fa help not a lecture so shut the hell up
--- Wednesday, November 3, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi again Beebee,
Didn't you like post the same question a hundred times already? It would be wise to check them before reposting your question with different "subject headings".
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--- Wednesday, November 3, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Oh yeah one more thing...
You want someone to come up with something you should say to him.. hows this grab you...
"Get a freaking job, I'm not a ATM machine, I'm not your Mom and I'm not your booty call!"
--- Wednesday, November 3, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Hmmm you know just a thought here.. ever think that maybe your parents are against you dating this guy not because he's black, but because he's a Jackass?
You've been "dating" this guy for 2 years and somehow you think that the problems in the relationship stem from him being black and your being white.. the problem is this guy is a player and a user and you ALLOW him to play and use you at his discretion.
You say you Love this guy.. what exactly do you Love about him? He lies to you, uses you, cheats on you is disrespectful to you.. wow sounds like a "gem" :rolls eyes:
Don't give me that crap that you don't have the "strength" to ditch his sorry ass.. trust me if you don't have any money to give him and you refuse to be treated in a disrespectful manner then you better find your "strength" real fast because he won't have any problem ditching you.
I will also point out to you that YOU yourself are perpetuating racisim in your own "special" little way in making remarks like he makes you feel like the most special WHITE girl on DIS earth.. wtf is that about? then you go on to say he had another BLACK girl sitting on his lap (and the part that it was his cousin *cough bullshit cough*) whats that all about? Do you need to point out that the other girl in question is black? would it make a difference if she had been white? For God Sake!
When someone cares about you they DON'T behave in a manner that would suggest otherwise and that is REGARDLESS if they are white, black, brown, yellow, purple, green... you get the point.
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