A lot of you are going to bash me for this but I feel that I need to get it out. I have just turned 20 and I am seeing a girl who is 13. When I first met her, I actually thought she was my age. She is just very mature. We have been seeing each other for a very long time. Her mother has approved of me, and after awhile, my parents pretty much approved as well. But lately, her mom's boyfriend has changed her mom's mind and I don't get to see her much. Over the past two months, her mother has been like Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hyde. She is okay with me and then she isn't. I really care for this girl a lot, but I tore up inside over all of this. I don't want to lose her and she doesn't want to lose me, but I am really wondering. Should I just put my feelings aside and break it off with her or should I follow my heart. I really need some true heartfelt advice. And I know that there are some people here that can really help me. Thank you a lot!
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--- Thursday, November 18, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Sorry, but I can't tell you this is okay.
You're an Adult, she is a minor.. it's illegal. Regardless of how much you care about her, she is a little girl. If you care about her the way you say you do then wait until she is 18.
--- Sunday, November 7, 2004 - dont hurt her
Answer by: beebee
i think if u love her..then dont break her heart and leave her..that stuff hurts girls alot..trust me i know
--- Sunday, November 7, 2004 - Sweet Story
Answer by: lady tee
Hi, Dollar $ign. I am really touched by your story. Personally when I read that you are 20 and she is 13, I said to myself "What is wrong with this guy?" But as I kept reading I started to change my way of thinking. I can tell that you really do "love" this girl. The situation that you are in is a tough one, but I think that you should think about it. Okay. You said that your parents and her parents both approved right? But now her mother's boyfriend is getting to her head. So I think that if maybe you talked to her mother and her boyfriend 1 on 2, then the 3 of you could come to a conclusion. Like you said, I know that you guys don't want to loose each other. So I think that would be a good thing to do. Conversation rules the nation. ~Good Luck
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