I have for a very long time have felt that my music teacher has had feelings for me but I am not sure and I would really like to know. He is married and his wife wanted to do something with him at the same time I had class and he called me to ask if I could change it but if I couldn't then he'd just see me at three. He then asked me where I lived at, he called me twice that same day. He thanked me for being flexible with changing my class and when he mentioned his wife to me it felt as if he was very reluctant to even mention her. I have met her and she is nice enough. Something she said made me think she thought that something was going on between me and Brian. There isn't at this time, but I think that there may be some interest there and how would I know if he is? Love, Janice
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--- Friday, December 3, 2004 - What I want in a man
Answer by: Janice
Enigma What i want in a an is a loving soul. kind heart and soeone with who I can share things with that I would't share with anybody else. Someone who will listen, Someone who has a sense of humor and above all someone to understand my idiosynchrosies and I have a lot of those.
--- Friday, December 3, 2004 - Thank youfor your input
Answer by: Janice
Well, thanks to all who replied. I do adit that I have some feeling for him but as long as he is married then I am not about to ever ake aove toward him.I ahve no intention of not dating other men or of siting at home pining away for him, but I still think that there is interest on his part as well. When I came to class yesteday he gave me a Cd of music that he wrote and performed himself for the most part. He said I inspired him. Maybe I am wrong or reading something into it that isn't there, but I have never been wrong about anyone's feelings for me in the past. I don't really know why I care if he is interested. Curiosity maybe, but I for whatever reason just want to know. Even if I don't persue it I just want to know. He also said he stayed up untul two a aking that CD for me. Does anyone out there go to that uch trouble to record aCd of their own compostions and stay up all night to do it and then tell the lady that they gine it to that she inspired them if there aren't feeling there? No matter what, I want to be his friend even if nothing else. Love, Janice
--- Tuesday, November 16, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
LOL Enigma!
Janice, I don't think he is interested. In fact I think it's the other way around, I think you're interested in him. Why would you care so much to know that he, as a married man, would be interested in you or not? I think he was being appreciative that you were flexible with your class schedule so he could spend time with his spouse. In other words, his WIFE. Meaning, UNAVAILABLE.
Give it up already, Janice. He's married. Do you need to even ask if he's interested? What should it matter? And why would you care?
--- Monday, November 15, 2004 -
Answer by: Enigma
Do this.. write down a list of all the things you want in a guy.. I'll wait..
Is MARRIED to someone else, OR Emotionally unavailable on that list? Crap! Look at that.. it isn't on mine either!!! Yay!
He is married Janice, he has made mention of his wife.. if she said something to you that seemed odd regarding you and her husband it's probably because she is getting the vibe that you're hoping something will happen.
Back up and look else where.. dating or becoming involved with MM will only make you unhappy, lonely and sad.
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