how can i tell if a girl likes me? my situation is confusing. i need to see what it means. thanx.
DAVE
PS: sorry i havent been around. lots to do, lol.
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--- Monday, November 22, 2004 - oyvey
Answer by: freakideek
Hey, well thats a hard question. I mean, it depends on the female. Some girls will be out and out flirts, while some may say hardly anything because of nerves. But there are some things you can count on - she finds you funny, you meet eyes, she pays more attention to you in a group setting, she touches you, she appears to be nervous in your presence.. ALSO, some girls and guys can be very alike here. Some of us girls are just not that confident making our desires known.... and some girls/guys will talk to anyone they're in close proximity to, regardless of sex. You have to be perceptive. Does she treat everyone the way she treats you? She could just think you're a good person to talk to/befriend. Just look and see if she seems a little more responsive when speaking to you. Do you catch her looking at you? Meet eyes without speaking? If so, greenlight.
--- Sunday, November 21, 2004 -
Answer by: Jonathan
Hi Dave,
Sorry it's not a chick-response but I add my two cent anyway.
When a girl likes you, she'll make it known by being totally obvious; that could be the usual "flirting". Why would she do this? Because she wants YOU to notice that she's interested, queing you to approach her - usually. No sign(s) of interest from her usually means, "you're not my type", or "I STILL for some strange reason haven't noticed you yet." No girl with very "high interest" in a guy would allow him to just drift out of her life without attempting to sell herself (not talking about "sex" here) -- end of discussion. Some women can be a bit more "subtle" in any instance, so you wont always notice unless you are really interested; why? because when you are interested, you tend to "look" for signals from them. I'll bet that if you didn't like a chick, you would never notice that she liked you unless she told you straight up front; being because you weren't looking for her TO like you, and could probably care less about her feelings. The "subtle" women will for some reason always appear in your presence, hoping that you will take notice of them, followed by you initiating in the first conversation.
AND TO CHECK YOUR WORK...
I'll bet that after lets say... 5 minutes of positive upright communication you'll be able to ask for the 7 digits and walk off with a grin. Why (again)? Because when they are interested they tend to make it easy for you, which is because they "like" you; and I don't think she would risk letting you get away that easily. You heard it all...
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