I very recently started dating this guy. I have never had such a strong connection as I do with HIM. He is funny, smart, compasionate, and loving. All the things I ever wanted in a guy. I thought he was perfect until YESTERDAY when he told me that he was also dating another girl. Since we didn't have an exclusive relationship to begin with, I wasn't angry, I was just confused; especially since he says he cares for me MORE than the other girl, and that I was (am) very special to him. Now, I am left at an impass, because I don't know if I continue dating him, knowing he's also seeing some other girl, or if I end it all, or if I just give him an ultimatum (which isn't my thing to begin with...). Please help...need guidance, no one has ever done this to me before.
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--- Friday, November 26, 2004 -
Answer by: tanny
first of all, you need to be take the time and think if he is worth your time. you said you have only recently been dating him. if you think he is then just be upfornt adn from the heart with him adn tell him how you feel. tell him you really like him and want you 2 to have a one on one relationship. if he is a real man he will be straight up with you. it is better to know than to be sitting up in your room wondering.
--- Sunday, November 21, 2004 -
Answer by: beebee
girl....why would u want 2 be with 2nd wheel? u need to leave him alone & find someone dat will have you & only you..u must be crazy not 2 kno dat..which im sure deep down u kno that u are being dumb as hell..i kno it hurts i have been in the same situation...its best to leave him now then later..
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