Ok SOO... a week has went by and he still hadn't called. Up until today. He calls me and we talk for a bit, of course he was a jerk and hung up on me. He calls back and says he's sorry. That happened 3 times for no apparent reason. Then later on this afternoon he calls and calls and finally tonite we talked. He finally had my stuff so I went and met him. When we were on the phone he was a jerk saying "where should i meet you, i wanna get this over with" bla bla really rude towards me. So we meet up, I get my stuff, he gets his. Then instead of leaving we stayed and talked for a long time. Everything was fine up until we started talkin about our past. Then of course I'm dumb and i caved and was balling my eyes out. I told him to just leave b/c in the past he had said "you mean nothing to me any longer, i dont even know why i bother with you" so I pretty much said get lost. He chose to stay and talk me thru everything. I didn't understand because he always makes me feel like he doesnt care. He said it was the hardest thing going a whole week and not even talking to me. But he couldn't call me because it hurt him. He gave me a huge hug when he was leaving and called me every 5 mintues to make sure I got home ok. So yea.. He begged me to unblock him so I did, and everything was fine on the computer. He started calling me babe again. I don't get it. He tells me he still cares for me SO much, still calls me his babe. And he said that if we hang out one thing will lead to another and we will end up being forced back together and he knows that it is wrong. He says he loves me, but he cant be in love with me. But he's seeing some new girl.... I am SOO confused.
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--- Friday, November 26, 2004 -
Answer by: tanny
Sometiems you have to follow your mind and not your heart. If someone truly loved you they can be with you. Don't sell yourself short. He is only treating you this way because you continually let him. Please girl, take a stand for yourself.
--- Tuesday, November 23, 2004 -
Answer by: beebee
girl dis makes me sad 2 read.i just got out of a relationship like dat. i was wid da boy for 2 years & he was my '' first'' it was so hard to let him go but you have too..LET HIM GO! he isnt any good girl.. i know you must love him. the reason u hold on to him is the memories but u have to put them in the past.you really need to let him go.. do you want to see your self 5 years from now still putting up with his bullcrap? its going to be hard but let him go
--- Tuesday, November 23, 2004 -
Answer by: sam
Let me spell it out for you. HE IS A PLAYA. He is seeing someone else, and seeing you? Girl, wake up and smell the coffee on this one. He needs to be kicked to the curb and forgotten about. Dump him.
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